I spotted an interesting article on Lifehacker last week about the eight most common traits of successful people.
The article references Richard St John’s book The 8 Traits Successful People Have in Common that documents what he learned after spending seven years travelling around the world interviewing 500 of the most successful people in all kinds of fields.
You can watch his very short presentation on TED: 8 secrets of success.
He learned that their success was not down to simply being smart, lucky, talented, beautiful, privileged, confident, popularity but rather down to eight traits:
- Passion—love what you do.
- Work—work really hard.
- Focus—focus on one thing, not everything.
- Push—keep on pushing yourself.
- Ideas—come up with some good ones.
- Improve—keep improving yourself and what you do.
- Serve—serve others something of value.
- Persist—keep on going, because there is no overnight success.
What I find encouraging is the simplicity of this list.
What I find most challenging is number three: focus on one thing, not everything. That’s the one thing that I struggle with most. In the words of Queen, I want it all. I want to develop websites, write books, write music, play guitar, cycle, play mahjong, play chess, read. And that’s all after spending quality time with my family, praying, and going to work.
Perhaps this could be my challenge for the rest of this year: focus on one thing, not everything. Richard St John has a downloadable sheet where you can rate yourself on the 8 traits: Rate your 8 traits (PDF, 173 KB).
Once I get my eyesight back, of course, At the moment focusing isn’t exactly my strong point! In the meantime, I’m going to continue to spend quality time with my three amazing boys, who are definitely my biggest successes to date.