In which Isaac tells a story about the sun and renames the days of the week

A very serious looking Isaac, aged 3 wearing a striped rugby shirt.
A very serious, but grown-up, looking Isaac (3).

The sun

Last night while putting Isaac (3) to bed he told me a bedtime story. It was about the sun. The sun, he told me, one day fell out of the sky into our garden.

“Please help me get back into the sky,” said the sun.

So Isaac got his small orange trampoline and the sun bounced and bounced on it until he was high enough to reach the sky again. And then he went to sleep. The end.

I think there’s a message there for all of us.

Days of the week

At bedtime this evening Isaac decided that he should rename all the days of the week. This began when he was lying in bed and said “The day after Thursday,” he said, “should be called Milksday!” I asked why and he told me that it was because he likes to have milk after he is thirsty. So Milksday should come after Thursday!

I had already told him that Thursday is named after Thor, the Norse god of thunder. So he decided that all the days of the week should have super hero names. Apart from Milksday, obviously.

Here’s his full list of days, starting with not-Sunday:

  • Batmansday
  • Hulksday
  • Ironmansday
  • Hawkeyesday
  • Thorsday
  • Milksday
  • Spidermanday (which he said could just be shortened to Spidey!)

I shall be submitting my suggestions to diary manufacturer Letts in the morning.

Focus on one thing, not everything

Richard St John's 8 secrets of success on TED
Richard St John’s 8 secrets of success on TED

I spotted an interesting article on Lifehacker last week about the eight most common traits of successful people.

The article references Richard St John’s book The 8 Traits Successful People Have in Common that documents what he learned after spending seven years travelling around the world interviewing 500 of the most successful people in all kinds of fields.

You can watch his very short presentation on TED: 8 secrets of success.

He learned that their success was not down to simply being smart, lucky, talented, beautiful, privileged, confident, popularity but rather down to eight traits:

  1. Passion—love what you do.
  2. Work—work really hard.
  3. Focus—focus on one thing, not everything.
  4. Push—keep on pushing yourself.
  5. Ideas—come up with some good ones.
  6. Improve—keep improving yourself and what you do.
  7. Serve—serve others something of value.
  8. Persist—keep on going, because there is no overnight success.

What I find encouraging is the simplicity of this list.

What I find most challenging is number three: focus on one thing, not everything. That’s the one thing that I struggle with most. In the words of Queen, I want it all. I want to develop websites, write books, write music, play guitar, cycle, play mahjong, play chess, read. And that’s all after spending quality time with my family, praying, and going to work.

Perhaps this could be my challenge for the rest of this year: focus on one thing, not everything. Richard St John has a downloadable sheet where you can rate yourself on the 8 traits: Rate your 8 traits (PDF, 173 KB).

Once I get my eyesight back, of course, At the moment focusing isn’t exactly my strong point! In the meantime, I’m going to continue to spend quality time with my three amazing boys, who are definitely my biggest successes to date.